Another milestone birthday!

Have you ever noticed how milestone birthdays and big celebrations always seem to come in the same year. Whilst my recent birthday was not a biggie the next one was - H's eldest Son's 50^th and so we decided to push the boat out. They were coming to stay for a couple of days so a good opportunity for the four of us to celebrate.

What follows gives ideas for a slightly different way of celebrating and the emphasis is on the word “day”.

I know that the fashion seems to be big “secret” parties for family and friends people haven't seen for decades - it's whatever floats your own boat. Here's an understated, different approach.

I planned the food I wanted to serve and did as much prep as I could before they arrived.

The day began with breakfast out at Bill's. If you're not familiar, check out bills-website.co.uk for their menu and locations. What I like about this establishment is nothing appears to be a problem. Our Dil (daughter-in-law) is lactose intolerant – on arrival we were asked immediately for any dietary requirements and very quickly Dil was given a complete menu – the same as ours but obviously modified to suit – one big fat tick!

A delicious breakfast had by all, the guys went home to pick up Rose our dog and headed out for a walk – it was a beautiful day and you could have been forgiven for thinking it was Spring and not the middle of February! You will not be surprised to discover that we girls went off for a spot of retail therapy – it would be rude not to take the opportunity.

Fast forward, a great walk and successful shopping trip then a relaxing afternoon with the guys watching “petrol-head” stuff of their choice and we girls catching up big style.

I served an aperitif of choice at 5pm but no nibbles. I decided that I'd serve a starter that was easy to eat but above all quick and easy to cook. Scallops, sealed quickly on both sides on a high heat using a glug of rapeseed oil and a knob of butter with salt and pepper, then set aside on a baking tray in a warm oven whilst I repeated the exercise with king prawns and asparagus tips that I'd blanched – and added both to the baking tray.

Next, add 100g of good chicken stock to the juices in the pan to de-glaze – it should sizzle, then add 3 tbsp of Marsala followed by 30g of unsalted butter and stir for 1-2 minutes, until it thickens. Serve in practical sized dishes that have sides and make sure your servings are equal but not too big, garnish with a generous drizzle of the Marsala sauce. I served the starter with pastry forks – sounds odd but they are the perfect size to spear the scallops, prawns and asparagus.

Would you like to know how it went?